A Quiet Way to Live Out Your Faith at Work this Christmas
December tends to crank the volume up at work. Deadlines close in, budgets get finalized, holiday parties fill the calendar, and everyone is carrying something you cannot fully see.
That is exactly why the Christmas season can be one of the most meaningful times to live out your faith in the workplace. Not through pressure. Not through performance. Just presence. Open hands. Steady hope.
As U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy once said, “Connection is the essential glue of our lives.” And December, the time of year that 61% of Americans say they expect to feel lonely or sad, is when people quietly need that glue the most.
1) Start with the most underrated witness: being a safe person
Before you say anything “spiritual,” ask: Do people experience me as steady? Kind? Honest? Unhurried?
So much of faith at work is lived, not announced.
- You keep your word when it costs you.
- You refuse gossip, even when it is dressed up as “processing.”
- You treat the overlooked coworker like they matter.
- You do excellent work without making your work your identity.
You do not have to force conversations about Jesus. But you can embody the kind of life that makes someone curious about where your peace comes from.
2) Practice belonging on purpose (because isolation is closer than it looks)
Harvard Business Review has noted that
40% of people say they feel isolated at work.
Now layer December on top of that. One ValuePenguin survey found 61% of Americans expect to feel lonely or sad during the holidays, and 67% expect to feel anxious or stressed.
That means a simple question can be ministry:
- “How are you really doing this season?”
- “Do you have plans for the holidays?”
- “What is one thing you are looking forward to?”
- “What has been heavy lately?”
Then listen like you are not in a hurry. The goal is not to fix people. The goal is to make them feel seen.
If you want to go one step further, be the person who widens the circle:
- Invite the new employee to lunch.
- Make sure nobody “accidentally” gets left out of a team gathering.
- Bring warmth into meetings that normally feel clinical.
Belonging is not fluff. It is often the doorway to trust.
3) Turn gratitude into a spiritual practice, not a December cliche
Gallup reports that only one in three U.S. workers strongly agree they received recognition or praise for good work in the last seven days.
That is a huge opportunity for Christians because encouragement is free, specific, and powerful.
Try this this week:
- Write one sincere thank-you email that is specific: what you noticed and why it mattered.
- Praise publicly, correct privately.
- Give credit away faster than you take it.
Gratitude is one of the clearest ways to reflect the heart of God at work, especially in a season when people feel unseen.
4) If you share faith verbally, keep it permission-based and human
You can absolutely live out your faith at work without turning your workplace into a project.
Here are a few natural, low-pressure ways to speak about faith when it fits:
- If someone asks about your plans: “Christmas Eve with my church and then family time.”
- If someone shares something hard: “I’m so sorry. Would it be okay if I prayed for you?”
- If someone talks about feeling burned out: “One thing that steadies me is prayer, even if it’s just a few minutes.”
Notice the posture: gentle, invitational, non-assumptive.
Also, do not underestimate simple honesty:
- “This season reminds me I’m not in control, and that’s weirdly comforting.”
That kind of statement is often more compelling than a rehearsed speech.
5) Be brave enough to invite, gentle enough to accept “no”
One Lifeway Research summary found that among those who do not attend church at Christmastime, 57% say they would likely attend if someone they knew invited them.
If you have built relational trust with a coworker, a simple invitation can be a gift:
- “No pressure at all, but our church has a Christmas Eve service. If you’d like to come, I’d love to save you a seat.”
If they say no, stay warm. If they say yes, be present. Your job is not to control outcomes. Your job is to love people well.
6) For leaders: create space for faith without creating pressure
If you are a business owner, leader, or manager, the Christmas season can be a beautiful time to set tone through culture, not coercion.
A few wise, healthy options:
- Host a voluntary moment of reflection (clear opt-in).
- Offer a prayer option before a holiday meal, while honoring that not everyone participates.
- Lead a generosity initiative as a team, and let participation be encouraged, not demanded.
- Communicate holiday greetings that reflect your values, while remaining respectful and professional.
In the U.S., workplace religious expression and accommodations sit under Title VII frameworks, and the EEOC provides guidance on religious discrimination and accommodation principles.
A good rule of thumb:
make space, do not force it.
Clarity and kindness can coexist.
Some organizations (including our strategic partner, Alliance Defending Freedom) also publish guides aimed at faith-motivated employers navigating these topics.
A simple closing question to carry into your week
What would it look like, in the middle of year-end chaos, to hold your work with open hands?
Not forced. Just open. Not perfect. But purposeful.
If you are a leader exploring what “faith at work” can look like with wisdom, confidentiality, and real-world complexity, this is a theme we talk about often in CEO peer forums like C12. Get connected to a local group of like-minded CEOs and owners near you, here.
Sources
Alliance Defending Freedom. (n.d.). Faith in the Workplace (Download the guide). https://adflegal.org/campaign/faith-in-the-workplace/
Gallup. (2024, January 12). The Importance of Employee Recognition: Low Cost, High Impact. https://www.gallup.com/workplace/236441/employee-recognition-low-cost-high-impact.aspx
Harvard Business Review. (2019, December 16). The Value of Belonging at Work. https://hbr.org/2019/12/the-value-of-belonging-at-work
Lifeway Research. (2015, December 14). No Place Like Church for the Holidays. https://research.lifeway.com/2015/12/14/no-place-like-church-for-the-holidays/
U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. (2021, January 15). Section 12: Religious Discrimination. https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/guidance/section-12-religious-discrimination
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of the Surgeon General. (2023). Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation: The U.S. Surgeon General’s Advisory on the Healing Effects of Social Connection and Community. https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf
UCLA Health. (2023, June 29). Column: U.S. Surgeon General: Loneliness Is at Heart of Growing Mental Health Crisis. https://www.uclahealth.org/news/publication/column-us-surgeon-general-loneliness-heart-growing-mental
ValuePenguin. (2023, December 4). 61% of Americans Will Feel Sad or Lonely This Holiday Season (survey). https://www.valuepenguin.com/lonely-holiday-survey
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